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Rabbi Tziona Szajman:  email RabbiTziona@stny.rr.com



Parashat B'shallah      Exodus 13:17 - 17:16

The Talmud recounts a story told by Rabbi Joshua Ben Hananiah who, while on a journey, met a young boy sitting at a crossroad. Rabbi Joshua Ben Hananiah asked the boy which road led to the town. The boy answered cryptically, "This [road] is short but long and that [road] is long but short."

If offered such advice, most of us probably would choose the short but long road. That is also what Rabbi Joshua Ben Hananiah did: he headed down what he believed would be the shorter route. As he approached the town, though, he discovered that it was so hedged in by gardens and orchards that he could not get through and so had to return to the crossroad. Meeting the lad again, Rabbi Joshua asked him, "My son, did you not tell me this road was short?" The boy replied, "Did I not also tell you: 'but long?'" Whereupon, Rabbi Joshua kissed the boy on his head and said, "Happy are you O Israel; all of you are wise, both young and old." Presumably, Rabbi Joshua then headed down the long but short road and soon came upon the town he sought.

Sometimes the long road can get us where we need to go faster than the short road. That is as true for traveling as for the small daily interactions that build interpersonal relations and the large–scale projects that foster communal growth and change.  This is one of the lessons we can draw from our Torah reading this morning, Parashat B'shallah.  The Torah tells us that, as the Jews left Egypt, "God led the people roundabout, by way of the wilderness at the Sea of Reeds" (Exodus 13:18).

Ostensibly, God wanted to spare the Israelites a confrontation with the Egyptian garrisons that fortified the coastal road to Canaan. Some commentators suggest that the Israelites, recently freed from slavery, would be easily discouraged and would want to return to Egypt if they had to fight their way past these fortifications. Others suggest that Israel needed the extra time to develop the requisite skills and qualities necessary for success in the Promised Land.
As Etz Hayim explains,; "Sometimes the harder way of doing something turns out to be the better way."

We know that is true. Sometimes, taking a little longer will get us where we want to go faster, and in better shape, than if we tried to take a shortcut. The long road sometimes is shortest.

Temple Israel is a community on a journey, and I know it sometimes feels like a very long and circuitous journey.  I have confidence in the path we are taking, and the people who are walking with me.
 
I often hear people talk about past days when the synagogue was 400 families strong, when so-and-so came and cooked men’s club breakfasts, or such and such brought in excitement and learning.
I fell in love with a beautiful community of 150 families, with a Temple Israel where families care for one another in the most intimate and giving ways, at times of death, illness, birth, and celebration.  This is a wondrous and beautiful community as we stand right now.  
 
The Israelites wandered through the desert until a new generation was born that didn’t remember the life of slavery in the Egypt.   For Temple Israel, I believe our challenge is in cherishing our history but finding our strengths in the now rather than looking back.
 
They say that in a successful marriage you have to fall in love with a new person every ten years.  Through our lives, we change a grow. As spouse grow and change they can choose to fall in love with each other again and again.  Much in the same way the Steve reaffirms his bar mitzvah obligations every time he comes to synagogue, and publicly celebrates his commitment to Judaism and this community today -- meaningful relationships are a long and winding road.
 
The time in the desert was time for Israel to develop a communal relationship with God.  Previously in the Torah we heard of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah’s relationship with God.  Here in the desert, for the first time, all of Israel develops a relationship with God.  God introduces this concept to Moses at the burning bush with the name yud, heh, vav, heh –I am what I will be – our relationship is a journey far into the future.  In the desert Israel builds it’s first sanctuary of prayers, the tabernacle, establishes it’s first synagogue board, the 70 elders,  an a first communal constitution in the ten commandments.  More importantly, Israel begins to feel God’ presence in our everyday lives.  God accompanies Israel as cloud by day and as a pillar of fire by night.   Day and night we felt God’s presence as a comfort and a constant.  This long road, established for our a new relationship with God, with each other and with generations to follow.
 
In our journey at Temple Israel, we are blessed with the inheritance of our forefathers and mothers.  They built, and planned, and carved a path of communal caring and giving.  As we grow into our new selves, as we are now, we choose to fall in love all over again with this community, to take the long road, and bring God into our lives as a community of 150 families, committed to discovering this new identity.









 

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